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My 2020 Oscar Fashion Favorites
The stars did not come to play this Awards season! Though there is an evident lack of diversity represented at The Oscars each year, some celebrities use their platforms to try and inspire and create change. Of course one of my favorite things of The Oscars is the fashion. This year did not disappoint, Singer Janelle Monae donned a sleek and shimmering Ralph Lauren gown at the 92nd Academy Awards red carpet on Sunday evening. The gown—complete with an open back, long sleeves, and a draped hood—the custom A-line creation was constructed with over 168,000 Swarovski crystals and demanded over 600 hours of hand embroidery in order to complete the…
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Dr. Martens Presents: OSHUN. #drmartenspresents returns with more free concerts that showcase musicians from DIY music scenes across the country.
The past few years I’ve really dig deep into discovering who I really am, diving into studying my ancestors and my culture. One of the many things I found interesting is their love of the earth, and the spiritual universe that surrounds us. In this journey I discovered Oshun, an orisha, a spirit, a deity, or a goddess that reflects one of the manifestations of the Yorùbá Supreme Being in the Ifá oral literature and Yoruba-based religions. She is one of the most popular and venerated orishas. Oshun is an important river deity among the Yorùbá people, divine feminine, fertility, beauty and love. Embracing this side of myself I honored…
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My must have Winter Fashion item: The Teddy Bear Coat
One of my favorite things to do is treating myself to a new item for the season, whether it’s a new sweater or a coat it always helps me feel more confident. Usually when it comes to winter items they sell out by fall, so finding a great coat is hard. I’m sure you’ve all seen people wear these teddy bear looking coats, it looks so comfy you probably wouldn’t want to take it off. I’m from nyc, where the winters are brutal and comfort goes out the window in exchange for warmth. Luckily I was able to find both in my must have winter fashion item, the teddy bear…
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Manifesting Your Best Life
Most people live their lives led by fear, people naturally feel disappointed when things don’t go their way, they then blame the fact that maybe they jinxed it and shared with someone else and that’s why it didn’t work out. That’s not it, but we’re so used to projecting our insecurities on others so we don’t realize it. You hear people talk about manifesting everyday, and it sounds crazy. In order for you to manifest you have to believe, you have to see yourself accomplishing it. This requires more faith in oneself than most people have, it all comes back to those limiting beliefs that keep us trapped behind walls…
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The Power Of Intention
Ever since I was little I knew about the power of intention, without knowing what it truly meant. My dad taught me about the power of prayer, which is faith in knowing. As i grew older if i wanted something bad enough I would attract it. However our limiting beliefs begin to shift our mindset, and life can become a series of stressful situations if we allow it. Around 7 years ago I came across a book that changed my life, the magic. For years the secret swept across the world spreading the message of gratitude, and how your the power of gratitude could change your life. Going back to…
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What are chakras? And how can they help me & how I feel about myself?
As I get older I love learning more about myself, and learning more about what helps balance me. For a long time I knew of my power, of how strong I am, I was taught about practices that my ancestors used for their spirit. As I got older I felt I lost my connection to my spirit, I honestly felt like the world around me was against me; until I realized it was me who was my enemy. I was in a war with myself, carrying trauma with me until It wore me down. At a recent healing retreat I was reintroduced to learning about my chakras, something I knew…
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Releasing your pain & reclaiming your power!!! The Empowered You Retreat changed my life!
One of the many things the last couple of years have shown me, is that healing isn’t linear. I focused on healing, healing the pain that was only really on the surface, not even considering childhood pain. I went to therapy, had a mood journal, took my anti depressants and still felt like i’d never feel like myself again. My self doubt was high and my self worth was low, I identified with my pain so much i believed that pain was always a part of me. i began to really ask God, the Universe, my Angels for help; I was ready for the shift. I had forgotten my power,…
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I began journaling for a month, and here’s what I learned…
Two years ago I began my mental health journey, once I was diagnosed with bi polar depression and anxiety I felt more in control. I felt that there was finally a light at the end of that never ending tunnel. My therapist suggested I should start keeping a journal, to keep track of my emotions. It reminded me of my younger self, and how I loved keeping a diary. I found that in my loneliest, saddest moments keeping a journal helped release some of that tension; it was therapy in itself. I could say whatever I felt and with each word a part of me felt less alone. So years…
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FOMO: the effects of social anxiety in the social media age.
When I was in my twenties I had huge FOMO (the fear of missing out). I felt left out at times, missing the “cool” events and not having the right connections. This only heightened when I became a mother, I felt like my world went in another direction than everyone else. My mind, body and soul was no longer the same, and my depression grew as social media took over our lives. I remember how Facebook began my fear of missing out on love, as everyone I knew was getting engaged and married, or the photoshop craze that took over Instagram made me hate my life and especially my body.…
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Leaving our ego at the door: learning the power of humility
Don’t you wish you could give the younger version of yourself advice? Man, the things my ego has taught me. Ego is linked with anxiety and fear, fear of being vulnerable and showing the side of yourself you’re not proud of. Like honestly, the things I’ve learned and experienced in this lifetime has humbled me beyond words. When we’re younger we think we got it all figured out, from the moment we get that diploma placed in our hands we feel like the world is ours. I was somewhat naive and shielded from what the real world was like, I thought I knew who I was and what I wanted…
